So much of our days are parents are predictable. Scheduled. Rigid. Husband's alarm goes off at 6. My alarm(Kiley) goes off at about 6:45, we eat breakfast, Kiley naps at 9, I typically work out, etc.
And when things are spontaneous, it's usually not a good thing. Around here it involves cleaning up poopy diaper.
But when it comes to relationships, it's incredibly important to help keep things fresh and exciting.
I'm not going to tell you what you need to be spontaneous about, but try to think about doing something out of the ordinary today. Turn some music on and dance. Send him a text telling him that you miss him.
Maybe it's going out for dessert after dinner.
Look, being spontaneous doesn't necessarily have to do with sex. It just means adding a little fun and excitement back into your family and your relationship.